After the holiday season, there is a time of reflection that leans into an opportunity to recommit to yourself. The markers of relationships, especially in the time of traditional holiday gathering season, can evoke contemplation that might involve an element of judgement. The opinions developed toward others’ wrongs and rights are often a reflection of caring or focusing too much on others, perhaps more than self. While it may seem like a natural tendency to develop and perspective on other’s actions, it’s also a marker of your own opportunities of development. Perhaps, the bigger question is how much time, energy and power are you handing over to others, their life and activities? How would that change your energy, time and relationship with self?